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第二部分 对症下药,逐一对付

35.贪婪

当我们看到我们想得到的东西,就有声音从我们心里响起:“我要,我要! ”即使是小孩子也会这样,他会像我们的始祖夏娃那样伸手去采摘禁果。


当我们想得到更多、更好的时候,我们就起了贪念,即使少一点也不满足。


很多小孩子——甚至成年人一一总是贪得无厌,也不管自己吃得了吃不了,就是一味把食物往自己碗里夹,惟恐迟一点给别人夹了就吃亏似的,结果却又吃不下那么多,要把食物倒掉,真是何苦! 


贪享美食是每个人都会有的一种欲望,特别在战争或饥荒的日子,很多人就为了贪图一餐温饱,不顾廉耻,甚至弃仁义道德为敝履。


除此,我们也会贪睡,贪舒适,不惜放下要务,甚至牺牲祷告的时间,为求多睡一会。


还有,我们会受很多物质引诱,像时髦的衣着、金钱、享受和舒适的生活,都是我们渴求的,除了贪爱物质享受外,我们还追求心灵上的满足,例如得到别人的注意、尊重或爱情等等。


贪婪是一种罪,是始祖堕落的根由。它令我们失去天堂的福乐,像以扫一样,失去我们长子的名份。因此我们绝不能漠视这罪,纵容自己的贪欲,追求更多的金钱、更多恩赐或其他好处。


圣经清楚说:“但那些想要发财的人,就陷在迷惑,落在网罗,和许多无知有害的私欲里,叫人沉在败坏和灭亡中。”(提前6:9)这就是贪得无厌的结果。


贪念不单会令我们伤害别人,并且使我们远离神。神要我们全心全意地爱祂,不想我们分薄对祂的爱,因此,当我们所倚靠或追求的对象不是神,而是其他偶像的时候,神就向我们收回祂的爱,夺去我们的喜乐。


耶稣在财主的比喻里,说明了贪心的结果。那财主享尽世上的荣华富贵,死后却极痛苦,因他永无止境的欲望,以致舌头被火烧灼(路16:24)。


我们会不会落得财主那样的收场? 这要视乎我们的决定。耶稣教我们如何摆脱我们的贪念,祂说:“凡为我丧掉生命的,必得着生命。” (太16 : 25 ) 这是我们得胜的秘诀。


注意 : 除非我们愿意放弃物质和精神上的所有好处一一“所有”,而不是“某些"我们才能胜过我们的贪念。我们要循序渐进,把这些欲望带到神的面前,逐一放下,不再迷恋渴慕得着它们,我们就会凊心寡欲,无所祈求了。


比方说,如果我们很贪嘴,就要节制自己的食欲,每次进食的时侯都不忘记对神这样说 :“主啊,祢已救我脱离这捆绑。” 


我们要把我们的味觉视为仇敌,不让它贪爱山珍海味,直至我们觉得吃什么都没关系,到那时,我们不但能为各样美食而感谢神,即使食物不怎样可口或足够,我们也会心满意足。


同样的,如果我们很贪睡,就要在睡前求神唤醒我们,或先把闹钟拨好,或请别人唤醒,好让我们在一天开始之前,首先和主有交通。


我们要求耶稣作我们饮食和睡眠的主,用我们的身体、舌头、眼睛和四肢来事奉祂,而不是用来满足我们无穷的欲望,以免我们成为欲望的奴隶。


保罗在提摩太前书也强调这点,他说:“敬虔加上知足的心便是大利了。” (提前6 : 6 )


我们应该知足,而不该好高鹜远,追求更多的余暇和假期,或更高的薪酬、更大的房子、更好的衣着……,这些都是会朽坏的东西,不但给我们带来不幸,并且令我们犯罪跌倒。我们要知足,要肯吃亏,因为这是主所喜爱的。


耶稣为我们的缘故,甘愿舍弃天上所有的荣华富贵,来到世界,成为人的样式。"你们知道我们主耶稣基督的恩典,祂本来富足,却为你们成了贫穷,叫你们因祂的贫穷,可以成为富足。“ (林后8 : 9 )


耶稣正在呼召我们,叫我们和祂一同享受知足的喜乐,神赐福的应许也必临到我们。


没有人能同时事奉两个主,我们不能一面追求属天的永远富足,一面又追求属地的享乐。追求属世物质的人必失去属天的富足 ; 我们若先求神的国和神的义,神就必把我们在地上需用的赐给我们。( 太6 : 33 ) 


我们现在就要作出决定! 耶稣已为我们而舍弃一切,甚至赔上自己的性命,好使我们得着新生命。


我们要靠着基督的得胜,凭信心说 :“羔羊的血已把我从贪心的罪救赎出来。” 让我们天天都过着仰望神的生活 ; 在主里面,我们一切欲望都能得到满足。


主耶稣啊! 祢为我舍弃了万事,在加略山为我付上赎价,使我能够得着祢知足的喜乐。祢已使我脱离了贪念的捆绑,我心里只有一个渴望,就是得着天上永远的荣耀! 

You Will Never Be the Same

Dr. Basilea Schlink

PART TWO: Individual Sins 

GREED: CRAVING


Whenever we see something that we would like to have for body, soul or spirit, our heart begins to say, "Give me; Give me!" Even the smallest child says that. He stretches out this hand to get it as Eve, the mother of our race, reached for the forbidden fruit.


The desire to have can either be for "more" or for "much". But it also can be a desire for the "best"; anything less is not good enough. There are many children--and sometimes adults also--whose eyes are bigger than their stomachs. They heap more upon their plates than they can eat; they always reach for the best piece. This desire for more or for especially good food is often very strong. In time of war and famine we have often seen what a power this is. People lose their dignity and break all ethical rules just to satisfy their desires.


Furthermore, all of us know how much we long for sleep and comfort. The bondage to sleep can be so great that we can sacrifice even things essential for life, even our prayer time, just in order to be able to sleep more. Our desires are kindled by many things--by modern clothing, more money, more comfort, and conveniences. But in all our hearts there is not only greediness for visible goods, but also often for things that satisfy the soul; like attention, respect and love from other people.


Greed is a dangerous sin: it was the beginning of the fall. So greed can once again cost us the loss of "paradise" and the blessing of our birthright as in Esau's case. Therefore, we cannot afford to persist thoughtlessly or indifferently in greed for certain things, in bondage to food and sleep, in greed for "more"--more money, goods, talents or anything else that we desire.


For Holy Scripture says, "Those who desire to be rich fall into a temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and hurtful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction" (1 Tim. 6:9).


This is what greed leads to, not only for this life, but for eternity. The sin of greed not only makes us often sin against others, but it also causes us to lose our connection with God. Anything that we crave for or are attached to-other than God-is an idol. And God will not share His love with any of our idols. If we hold on to them, we will lose the love of God. Our joy in God will be taken from us. Jesus shows us the consequences in the parable of the rich man. After he had satisfied all his desires in his earthly life, his tongue burned in the other world due to unfulfilled desires and he was "in anguish" (Luke 16: 24).


Everything depends upon our being set free from greed. Jesus shows us the way by saying, "Lose!". "Whoever loses his life for my sake will find it" (Matt. 16: 25). This slogan "to lose" is a weapon in the fight against desire. But beware: only if we lose things, goods, large and small, for body, soul and spirit, will we give greed a setback. We must begin to act categorically and turn away from the things we desire most at the moment. In spirit we should offer them up to God, and not spend much time thinking about them. We must not ask for them, nor help ourselves to them. And by giving them away we will no longer nourish the greed in us and it will starve to death.


For instance, if we are bound to food, we should become accustomed to eating with discipline and to praying while eating, "You have set me free from this bondage". We should look on our palate as our enemy and not let it have any especially tasty thing until it does not matter what we eat. Then we can enjoy good food with thanksgiving for the gift of God's great goodness-but we can also be satisfied with less at other times.


Similarly, if our bondage is to sleep. When we go to sleep, we should ask the Lord to wake us at the right time, or set our alarm clock so that we will have time for the Lord and prayer at the beginning of the day, or ask others to help us get up early. We must ask Jesus to be the Lord of our sleep, the Lord of our food, not we ourselves. Our limbs, our tongues, our eyes, our bodies, are to serve righteousness, to be used for His glory and not for unbridled desires, which will enslave us.


That is why the Apostle Paul emphasizes this point in his first letter to Timothy; "There is great gain in godliness with contentment" (1 Tim. 6: 6). That means, we should be contented with what we have rather than desire to have more free time and vacation, a higher salary, a better house, better clothing, etc. We must not strive for perishable things, for they often bring sin and misfortune. We should choose the way of contentedness, even the way of deprivation. 


For that was Jesus' way. Jesus, who possessed all the wealth in heaven and on earth, deprived Himself of the glory He had with the Father and walked the earth as a poor man. "For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that by his poverty you might become rich" (2 Cor. 8: 9). He is calling us to join Him in being content; then the promise of God's blessing will be upon us.


No man can serve two masters at the same time. No man can strive for earthly and eternal riches at the same time. Whoever seeks earthly things will lose eternal riches. But whoever seeks the Kingdom of God will reach eternal glory above and everything he needs in the way of earthly goods will be given to him by God (Matt. 6:33).


We have to make a decision! Jesus, who went the way of deprivation and losing for our sake, has gained this new way of thinking for us, through His sacrificial death. Therefore, in faith we must take hold of the victory banner and rely upon His victory: "I have been redeemed in the blood of the Lamb from all greed and craving". Let us allow no day to go by without looking at Jesus and being set on fire to give up something instead of craving for things. Then all our desires will be satisfied in Him.


My Lord Jesus! You have been deprived of everything for me. Your joy in being content and satisfied, Your willingness to give away everything is now mine. You have paid the price on Calvary. I am free from the powers of greed. Your love will only let one desire live in me-the desire to reach the heavenly, eternal glory.