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第二部分 对症下药,逐一对付

27.论断人

骄傲包括了批评和论断人。彼得前书五章五节说:“神阻挡骄傲的人。" 一个人相信了耶稣,若仍然喜欢论断人,不肯改除这恶习,神就会与他为敌,向他发怒,试想这会是多么可怕的事啊! 尤其将来我们见主面的时侯,后果就更加严重。


主严厉的警吿我们:“你们不要论断人,免得你们被论断,因为你们怎样论断人,也必怎样被论断。 (太 7:1-2)


控诉和论断人是撒但善用的技俩,我们如果这样做,就是听从了撒但的指使。论断人其实是一种骄傲的表现。许多时候,我们单凭片面的耳闻目见,就对事情妄下判断,根本没有理会事情的真相,或别人的动机是什么。


撒但在我们心中撒下论断人的毒素,如果我们让这毒素继续滋长下去,有一天我们必要接受神可怕的审判。耶稣称那些喜欢论断的人为“假冒为善的人” (太7 : 5 )、并警吿他们将来必要落到地狱去。


因此,除非我们不希望进入神的国,不然的话,我们必须认真对付自己爱批评的罪,从心底讨厌它,绝对不让这罪在我们身上有任何作为。


究竟我们应该怎样对付这个敌人呢? 首先,我们要承认自己批评了别人。不要替自己找借口,例如“我应该指出他的错,免得他越弄越糟嘛! ”


事实上,我们批评是因为我们喜欢指责别人,喜欢纠正别人的不是,或者因为别人做了一些不合自己心意的事情,所以就借口批评来反抗,表示我们的不满。


让我们在神的光照下,看到自己因为骄傲而指斥别人的不是,责难别人,定人的罪。要知道旁人很容易因为我们的批评而对这个人产生成见,甚或与他反目成仇。因此,别少看了几句批评,我们的评语很容易会使我们的弟兄受伤害。


我们应当时常扪心自问: 我有没有因为不停说人的不是,以致伤了别人的心,毁了别人的前途? 假如答案是“有”,可以肯定我们已成了撒但的工具,必要受神的咒诅。


种瓜得瓜,种豆得豆,如果我们论断人,就得不到主要赐给我们宝贵的礼物——神的宽恕和赦罪。


神本已饶恕了我们,但因着我们的论断,神会再向我们发怒气,正如主耶稣在马太福音十八章所说的比喻 : 虽然主人已免了那仆人的债,但最后还是把他交给掌刑的,因为他不肯怜恤他的同伴。


耶稣说 :“倘若你一只眼叫你跌倒,就去掉它。” ( 可9:47 ) 让我们与爱批评的罪展开激烈的争战,我们要照主的话去行,否则便无法从罪中摆脱出来。


耶稣告诫我们 :“先去掉自己眼中的梁木。” ( 太7:5) 也就是说叫我们不要对别人诸多挑剔,指责他们的不是,却应该在神面前安静下来,求神让我们知道自己有没有犯了同样的罪。


惟有在神的光照下,我们才会发觉自己可能也犯了别人所犯的错,甚至可能错得更明显、更严重。那时,我们必因自己的罪而羞愧得无地自容,再不敢自以为是,妄自尊大,任意批评别人了!


保罗说 :“你这论断人的,无论你是谁,也无可推诿。你在什么事上论断人,就在什么事上被论断。”(罗2 : 1 )又说 :“你这个人,为什么论断弟兄呢? 又为什么轻看弟兄呢? 因为我们都要站在神的面前。” (罗14 : 10 )


今天我们就要从审判官的高座上走下来,坐在被吿的座位上,听候神对我们的审判。我们就会愿意接纳别人对自己的看法,从家人或同事的心中认识到真正的自己,看到自己原来满身罪污,


因此能够谦卑下来,接纳别人的批评或责难,即使这些批评并不公平,我们也会虚心受教。同时也抑制自己,不再随便批评人,对人妄下判断。


耶稣因为爱我们,甘愿谦卑自己,降身尘世,受世人的审判。祂把我们救赎出来,使我们在生活上彰显祂的慈爱,叫我们不再挑剔别人的过失,反倒隐恶扬善,以忍耐和饶恕代替责难,以爱心代替批评。


但这并不是说我们要姑息罪恶,容忍罪恶,乃是要本着爱心,谦卑地将别人的错处一一指出来。


当你认真对付你的罪,纠正你好批评的毛病时,你会发觉这罪是如此根深蒂固,非一朝一夕所能铲除的,惟有靠主耶稣才可以胜过。祂的宝血能洁净我们的罪,使我们不再批评和论断,做一个假冒为善的人。


只要我们凭着信心,恒切地祷吿,求主帮助我们对付自己的罪,我们就可以得着主的救赎,胜过自我,除去过往的罪,能够爱人和饶恕人。

You Will Never Be the Same

Dr. Basilea Schlink

PART TWO: Individual Sins 


Criticizing: Judging 


Included in the sins of pride, which God treats especially severely, are the sins of criticizing and judging. "God opposes the proud" (I Pet. 5: 5). Even if a person believes in Jesus, if at the same time, he persists in judging others God is not for him. Then God has to be against him. But it would be terrible to have God as our opponent, to be under His wrath, which will have its full effect in the other world. That is why Jesus warns us so sharply: "Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged" (Matt. 7: 1,2).


Judging others will bring the wrath of God down upon us. He will be against us, because this sin is especially satanic. Judging others and accusing them is what Satan does. He is the accuser. Judging is one of the manifestations of our pride, manipulated by Satan. In great presumptuousness we sit in judgment on everything that we see or hear about others, usually without knowing the background and the motives of their behaviour or mistakes. 


Judging is satanic poison in our hearts, which can bring us terrible judgment, if we persist in it. Jesus tells us this clearly by addressing those who judge with the words; "You hypocrites!" (Matt. 7: 5). Jesus threatens the hypocrites, saying they will not enter His kingdom, but the kingdom of hell; they will go to the "father of lies". So the spirit of criticism, nourished by the accuser, is our greatest enemy. We have to hate it from the bottom of our hearts and not tolerate it in the slightest, unless we want to find ourselves in the kingdom of the accuser instead of with Jesus. 


How can we attack this enemy? First, recognize the fact that we are full of criticism and stop trying to explain it away. We should no longer make excuses for ourselves by saying, "I have to tell others what they are doing wrong to prevent them from making a mess of things." In reality, however, we enjoy correcting others and reproaching them. Often the real source of our criticism is rebellion or annoyance, because someone did something against our wishes. 


Therefore, we criticize him and accuse him. So in the light of God we have to ascertain that it is presumptuous to accuse others, to reproach them and especially to pronounce our verdicts in front of someone else. Then we will become guilty towards our neighbour, by getting others to be against him, and this could seriously harm him. When we search our consciences in our quiet time, we should ask ourselves: Where have I brought guilt upon myself by judging others and reproaching them? 


What has my spirit of criticism brought about? Perhaps it has even ruined people's lives. Have I harmed the souls of people at home or at work by reproaching them again and again and continually accusing them? If we--perhaps as a parent or educator--have filled our hearts with this satanic poison and sprayed it out at others, we have to admit that we are subject to God's condemnation, that we were Satan's servants.


What a terrible harvest we will reap! Our criticism will rob us of the most precious gift that Jesus has given us: forgiveness and the blotting out of our sins. Criticism provokes the wrath of God, who has forgiven us, as the parable of the unmerciful servant tells us. Although He had forgiven this servant, He delivers him to the jailers, because this servant would not forgive his fellow-servants (Matt. 18: 32-34).


So it means that we have to make every effort to get free from this spirit of criticism and whole-heartedly repent. Here we must act according to Jesus' words, "If your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out!" (Mark 9: 47). That means waging an intensive battle against the satanic sin of judging others. Jesus clearly shows us the way and we have to follow it. Otherwise there will be no release. "First take the log out of your own eye!" (Matt. 7: 5). Jesus is exhorting us: Stop giving your opinions about others and accusing them, before you become quiet in the presence of God and ask Him whether you are guilty of the same sin. 


Our sin of criticism usually begins when we neglect to do this. We do not follow Jesus' words; we criticize immediately without first becoming silent in the presence of God and humbling ourselves under our sin which is even greater. When we come into the light of God, we will usually find out that we have the same faults, perhaps even more dominantly and many other undesirable traits in addition. Then we will see that our guilt is like a log in contrast to our brother's splinter. We will be ashamed of our own sin and lose our presumptuous and indignant desire to criticize others.


Then we will be struck by what the Apostle Paul writes, "Therefore you have no excuse, O man, whoever you are, when you judge another; for in passing judgment upon him you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, are doing the very same things." (Rom. 2: 1). And further: "Why do you pass judgment on your brother? Or you, why do you despise your brother? For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of God"-and be judged for this sin (Rom. 14: 10).


So today we must choose a new way, a new place. Instead of sitting on the judgment throne above the others we must sit where we deserve to sit: in the defendant's box, where we can be judged and hear God's judgment on our sins. When we are willing to do this, God will no longer be against us and we will no longer be in the hand of the accuser. On the contrary, we will belong to our Lord Jesus, who had to let Himself be accused in five trials.


 He did this, although He was innocent. Shouldn't we, who are guilty, be able to take this place? If we earnestly begin to judge ourselves, we will ask people at home and at work to tell us the straight truth about ourselves. Humbled beneath this, we will be able to accept the reproaches of others, even when they are unjust. Then our lips and hearts will be silent and we will not be able to criticize others so quickly and judge them so harshly.


Jesus went the way of humble love. He humbled Himself in the dust and let Himself be judged. Now He has redeemed the members of His body to live this love, which covers up others' mistakes instead of criticizing, which forgives and tolerates instead of making reproaches, which bestows kindness instead of criticism.


This does not mean tolerating sin. But if we should ever have to pronounce judgment, we will do it quite clearly but with a humble and loving heart.


But whoever wages a war of life and death against his spirit of criticism will find that nothing sits so deeply in our Adam's nature as the spirit of criticism. It will not disappear overnight by making one commitment, "I want to let myself be judged and place my mouth in the dust." No, our blood is infected with it. There is only one Person who is stronger than our old Adam. 


It is Jesus Christ. His blood has greater power than the blood that we have inherited from our fathers. This blood of Jesus has complete power to free us, if we call upon it ever anew; in it there is really power to cleanse us from our sins, from the great sin of judging others, from hypocrisy, which makes us guilty and brings us into Satan's hands. In faith we must appropriate the redeeming power of this blood. 


This will only happen in an intensive fight against this sin, in a daily battle of faith and prayer. This includes speaking the "nevertheless" of faith in spite of the defeats we experience: "I am redeemed to love and to forgive!" Whoever is willing to endure in this battle in spite of his short-comings, believing in Jesus' redemption, will be freed from his great sin of judging others.