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第二部分 对症下药,逐一对付

30.冷嘲热讽

许多时候,我们以取笑别人为乐,以为不过是无伤大雅的玩笑,却不知这是一种不折不扣的罪。在某些场合,取笑别人,拿别人来作笑柄,的确可以制造轻松的气氛。这样既可令人开怀大笑,又可博得人心,何乐而不为!


但要知道讥诮的灵是从魔鬼而来的,不可把它和幽默感混为一谈。当耶稣戴着荆棘冠冕的时候,人对祂的嘲讽和辱骂让我们看见讥诮的邪恶。取笑别人的,难免受可怕的审判。彼得后书指出在末世也必有敌基督的人出现,好讥诮的就是其中一类( 彼后3 : 3 )


圣经也提及好亵慢的罪。“亵慢者为人所恶。” (箴24 : 9 )诗篇第一篇这样记载:“不从恶人的计谋......不坐亵慢人的座位......这人便为有福 ” (诗1: 1一2 )箴言二十一章二十四节说:“心骄气傲的人名叫亵慢,他行事狂妄,都出于骄傲。”可见讥诮与亵慢都是出于骄傲。


为什么法利赛人的党羽要讥诮耶稣? 因为他们反对神的儿子作他们的主,但又没有真正的能力攻击祂,抗拒祂,于是只好用讥诮来攻击祂,冷嘲热讽来羞辱祂。


当我们妒忌、怨恨某些人的时候,也会像这些人一样,对他们冷嘲热讽,用卑鄙的手段在背后攻击他们。就是一句挖苦的说话,一句刻薄的玩笑,也足以破坏别人的名誉,使他的一生毁在我们手里。


有一天我们会看到自己对别人的嘲笑造成的伤害有多大,留下的伤痕是终身不灭的。讥诮与亵慢都是罪,是末世被撒但控制的人的标志。


对付讥诮的第一步是求圣灵光照,让我们看到讥诮和嘲笑都是地狱的象征,是最卑鄙下流不过的,好叫我们晓得恨恶这罪。另一方面,仰望那位头戴荆冠的主也可以帮助我们。


我们会惭愧得无地自容,为嘲讽所带给主的羞辱而痛悔不已。容忍这罪,不憎恨它,凭信心和它争战的人,难保有一日不会背叛耶稣,跟随别人敌挡祂。


在每件事情上都要求圣灵的光照,好叫我们看到自己取笑、奚落别人的真正原因一一嫉妒。我们没有胆量向人承认这点,就用充满恶意的讥诮作为报复的武器,我们冷言相向,无非是发泄心中之恨。


神要我们为自己的嫉妒而忏悔! 祂要救我们脱离这罪恶,因为祂来是要“ 除灭魔鬼的作为” (约壹3 : 8 ),建立爱的国度。主戴着荆棘的冠冕站在我们面前,祂不讥诮别人,反受人讥诮。


我们得蒙救赎,也要有祂的形像,为祂名的缘故,受人的嘲笑和讥讽。这样我们就不会再讥诮别人,反倒学会祝福我们的敌人。


撒旦匿藏在这罪的背后,准备全力赴战,我们是否也预备好呢?主会站在我们的一边,祂永远是得胜的主。

You Will Never Be the Same

Dr. Basilea Schlink

PART TWO: Individual Sins 


RIDICULE: SCOFFING


How quickly we try to dispose of scoffing and ridicule as something funny and harmless. Yet we have to admit that ridicule is a sin, although this sin, in contrast to many others, even has a good appearance sometimes. At parties and other get-togethers ridicule can create a "humerous" atmosphere; it does not cost us anything; it makes people laugh and wins us friends.


But the spirit of ridicule (which is not to be mistaken for the divine gift of humour) is a spirit from the devil. That we can see when we think of how Jesus was crowned with the crown of thorns. Here hell was let loose; it raged against its Creator. Ridicule, which often hurts so deeply, stems from hell. And whatever comes from hell and is sown by us will make us reap the punishment of hell. So if we tend to ridicule much, we have to see clearly that it is a serious sin, which will bring us judgment. The second letter of Peter lists the "scoffer" as one of the types of antichristian men that will appear in the last times (2 Pet. 3:3).


The Holy Scriptures also tell us more about the wickedness of scoffing. "The scoffer is an abomination to men" (Prov. 24:9b) The first Psalm begins "Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked...nor sits in the seat of scoffers" (Ps. 1:1). In Proverbs 21:24 it is written, "Scoffer is the name of the proud, haughty man who acts with arrogant pride." Scoffing and ridicule have one root: pride.


Curses, insults and scorn coming out of the mouths of the proud is like poison from hell--just as blessing and humble love for one another is what makes heaven heaven. And whoever wants to enter heavenly glory has to be set free from this poison of ridicule at all costs.


So that we can see this sin and its cause more clearly, and fight against it better, we have to realize how wicked our pride is when it is at work in this sin.


Why did the adherents of the Pharisees ridicule Jesus? Because they rebelled against having the Son of God as their Lord. They lacked true power to fight against Him and so they fought with ridicule, mockery and abuse. Because they really did not have any way to attack the Holy One of God, they sought to humiliate Him with ridicule.


We do the same thing, when we envy certain people, are bitter towards them or when we hate them. We rebel against them by using cheap and dirty tactics, against which no one can defend himself. We heap ridicule upon them. Yes, only a small, spiteful remark, a small bit of irony about a third person can ruin his reputation. And we know that our reputation is often worth more to us than our lives. So we have to realize that we can almost kill a person through mockery, ridicule or irony.


One day we will find out how much damage we have caused. We will have to see the wounds that our ridicule brought others and the scars that they had to bear for life. Ridicule and scoffing are devilish and are the sign of the people inspired by Satan in the last times. If we persist in ridiculing others, we will fall into Satan's hands and judgment will catch up with us in the other world.


No matter what the cost, we must be set free from scoffing. But how? The first important thing to do is to let ourselves be shown, by the light of God, that these mean, underhanded and dirty tactics come from hell-even if the enemy seeks to make this sin seem harmless. Furthermore, it will help us if we meditate much upon Jesus, crowned with the crown of thorns. Then, instead of scoffing, we will be filled with deep shame over what we have done to the King of kings through ridicule. Whoever continues to live in this sin without hating it and fighting a battle of faith against it will join the ranks of the opponents of Jesus.


In every specific case we must ask for the Spirit of truth so that we can see why we react so quickly towards certain people with ironic remarks. Then we will see the evil root in our hearts; perhaps envy, jealousy or bitterness. Our irony is often the weapon of revenge, which we use maliciously, because we are too cowardly to tell the other person something to his face or to speak openly with him.


But listen to what Scripture says: "Repent!"-about our envy, our bitterness, or whatever the root might be, and the godly sorrow we ask for will drive us into the arms of Jesus. Jesus will rescue us from this sin, which binds us to Satan, for Jesus has come to "destroy the works of the devil" (1 John 3: 8) and to establish the kingdom of love where there will not be any ridicule or scoffing. Jesus is standing before us as the Lord crowned with the crown of thorns, as the Lamb of God. A lamb does not ridicule, but it is ridiculed. 


We have been redeemed to bear the image of the Lamb. As the followers of Jesus we should be prepared to be laden with ridicule, mockery and disgrace for His name's sake; for "a servant is not greater than his master" (John 13: 16). Then we will lose our desire to ridicule and, instead, we will learn how to bless our enemies.


Behind this sin is Satan and he is ready to fight.


Are we ready too? Then Jesus will be on our side and He is always the Victor.